When a bright, curious child struggles with reading, writing, or spelling, it can leave parents searching for answers.
Understanding dyslexia can help explain those challenges and guide the next steps in supporting your child's learning.
What is Dyslexia?
Dyslexia is a language-based learning difference that makes learning to read, write, and spell more challenging. It affects how the brain takes in, processes, and makes sense of written language. Dyslexia doesn't mean a child isn't bright or eager to learn - it simply means they benefit from instruction that matches how they learn best.
Dyslexia is one of the most common learning differences, affecting an estimated one in five people. With proper identification, effective instruction, and the right support, students with dyslexia can build strong literacy skills and experience success in school and beyond.
Common characteristics of dyslexia include:
Reading more slowly than peers or having difficulty remembering what they read
Difficulty remembering letter-sound relationships and spelling patterns
Needing extra time to complete reading or writing tasks
Difficulty finding the right words when speaking
Difficulty following or remembering multi-step directions
Difficulty organizing thoughts in writing
Fatigue during reading or writing tasks
Frustration or discouragement with school, even when working hard
Dyslexia is often recognized for the challenges it presents, but it is only one part of a student's story. While every learner is unique, many individuals with dyslexia demonstrate strengths in:
Creative thinking and innovation
Problem-solving and critical thinking
Big-picture thinking and making connections
Curiosity and imagination
Resilience and perseverance
Strong verbal communication and storytelling
Empathy and interpersonal skills
Many accomplished individuals have publicly shared that they have dyslexia, including Steven Spielberg, Tom Holland, Salma Hayek, Dav Pilkey, Octavia Spencer, and Gavin Newsom. Their achievements are a reminder that dyslexia does not define what someone can accomplish. In fact, many credit their dyslexia with helping them develop unique perspectives, creative approaches to problem-solving, and the perseverance that contributed to their success.
Language-based learning differences (LBLDs) affect how students understand, process, and use spoken and written language. Dyslexia is the most well known, but other language-based learning differences include:
Dysgraphia - difficulty with handwriting, spelling, and expressing ideas in writing.
Dyscalculia - difficulty understanding numbers, math concepts, and mathematical reasoning.
Auditory Processing Disorder (APD) - difficulty processing and interpreting spoken language, especially in noisy environments.
Expressive and receptive language disorders - difficulty understanding spoken language, expressing thoughts clearly, or both.
Specific Learning Disability (SLD) - an educational eligibility category that parents often see on an IEP or school evaluation. It describes a student's eligibility for special education services and may include difficulties with reading, writing, math, listening, or speaking.
Many students have more than one language-based learning difference, and every student's learning profile is unique.
Researchers do not know the exact cause of dyslexia, but it is understood to result from a combination of genetic, neurobiological, and environmental influences that interact throughout development. Dyslexia often runs in families and is present from birth.
Dyslexia is not caused by poor teaching, a lack of motivation, or a child's effort. It affects children from all backgrounds, and with effective instruction and support, students with dyslexia can develop strong literacy skills.
Every child develops at their own pace, but some early patterns in language and literacy development may be signs of dyslexia. These include:
Difficulty learning nursery rhymes or rhyming words.
Trouble recognizing or naming letters.
Difficulty learning the sounds letters make.
Delayed speech or difficulty pronouncing words.
Difficulty remembering the names of colors, shapes, letters, or numbers.
Trouble following multi-step directions.
Difficulty learning the alphabet or remembering the days of the week.
A family history of dyslexia or other language-based learning differences.
Early signs do not necessarily mean a child has dyslexia, but they may warrant closer observation. If you have concerns about your child's development, talk with your child's teacher, pediatrician, or another qualified professional about whether additional screening or evaluation would be appropriate.
Reads slowly, guesses at words, or struggles to sound out unfamiliar words.
Has difficulty remembering letter sounds, sight words, or spelling patterns.
Makes their letters and numbers inconsistently or has difficulty remembering how to write them.
Spells the same word differently within the same piece of writing.
Understands stories when they're read aloud but struggles to read them independently.
Has great ideas when speaking but struggles to organize those ideas in writing.
Needs much longer than expected to complete reading or writing assignments.
Becomes frustrated, anxious, or tired during reading and writing tasks.
Works incredibly hard but continues to struggle with reading, writing, or spelling.
Says things like, "I'm just bad at reading," or "I'm not smart."
If these characteristics sound familiar, consider talking with your child's teacher, pediatrician, or another trusted professional. They can help determine whether a comprehensive evaluation is appropriate and discuss the instructional supports that may benefit your child.
If your child is working hard but continues to struggle with reading, writing, or spelling, it may be time to consider a dyslexia evaluation. You don't have to wait for your child to fall significantly behind before seeking answers. A comprehensive evaluation can help identify your child's strengths and learning needs and guide the next steps in supporting their learning.
There are several ways to better understand your child's learning needs. While a private evaluation is the only way to receive a formal diagnosis of dyslexia, school-based evaluations and dyslexia screeners can also provide valuable information about your child's academic skills and help determine whether additional assessment or support is needed.
Private Evaluation (Formal Diagnosis)
A comprehensive evaluation conducted by a licensed psychologist or neuropsychologist is the only way to receive a formal diagnosis of dyslexia. These evaluations assess reading, writing, language, cognitive, and academic skills to develop a detailed understanding of your child's learning profile and provide recommendations for instruction and support.
Public School Evaluation (IEP Evaluation)
If your child attends a public school, you can request a comprehensive special education evaluation. The purpose of this evaluation is to determine whether your child qualifies for services under an Individualized Education Program (IEP) or Section 504 Plan. While these evaluations do not typically provide a medical or clinical diagnosis of dyslexia, they can identify learning needs and determine eligibility for school-based supports.
Literacy Screener
A literacy screener is a brief assessment that identifies whether a child may be at risk for dyslexia. Screeners do not provide a diagnosis, but they can help determine whether a comprehensive evaluation is recommended.
Dyslexia is a lifelong learning difference and cannot be "cured." The goal is not to change who a student is, but to provide the instruction, strategies, and support they need to become successful readers, writers, and learners. Effective, multisensory instruction can have a profound impact on a student's literacy skills and confidence. While early identification and intervention are especially beneficial, intentional instruction and support can help individuals with dyslexia at any age.
Students with dyslexia learn most effectively through structured literacy - an explicit, systematic, and multisensory approach to reading and writing instruction. Rather than expecting students to discover patterns on their own, structured literacy teaches the building blocks of language in a clear, sequential way, with each new skill building on those that came before. Frequent practice and review help students strengthen and apply their learning over time.
A dyslexia diagnosis can bring a mix of emotions - relief, uncertainty, hope, and many questions. While every family's journey is different, a diagnosis is often the first step toward understanding how your child learns and what support will help them succeed.
Consider these next steps:
Learn about your child's strengths and areas of need.
Share the diagnosis with your child in a positive, age-appropriate way. Understanding how they learn can build confidence, self-awareness, and self-advocacy.
Talk with your child's school about instructional supports, accommodations, or services that may be appropriate.
Seek evidence-based, structured literacy instruction from professionals trained to work with students with dyslexia.
Connect with other families, educators, or organizations that can provide guidance and support.
Every child is different, but a specialized school may be worth considering if your child continues to struggle despite receiving appropriate instruction, intervention, or tutoring or if your child is losing confidence or enjoyment at school. A specialized school can provide an environment where evidence-based instruction, small class sizes, and a community of peers with similar learning profiles are part of the entire school day - not just an hour of intervention.
Families often begin exploring a specialized school when their child:
Continues to struggle with reading, writing, or spelling despite intervention.
Is making some progress with intervention, but would benefit from more regular and consistent literacy support.
Is spending a significant amount of time on homework or tutoring with limited progress.
Is becoming frustrated or anxious about the school day.
Would benefit from learning alongside peers with similar learning profiles.
You don't need to wait for your child to fall behind before identifying the support they may need. A child may be meeting academic expectations while spending significantly more time and effort on reading, writing, homework, or studying than their peers.
Signs that additional support may be helpful include needing extensive help with homework, taking much longer than expected to complete assignments, avoiding reading or writing, or becoming frustrated or exhausted by schoolwork.
If there is a consistent gap between your child's effort and their progress, additional support can help strengthen literacy skills and make the school day less taxing. This might mean tutoring to help reading and writing become more automatic and less effortful, or a school environment where instruction throughout the day is intentionally designed for students with dyslexia and other language-based learning differences. Your child's current school can also be an important resource for understanding what additional instruction, interventions, or accommodations may be available.
Wherever you are in your journey, we're here to provide the guidance, expertise, and support you need.
Hamlin Robinson School is an independent school and learning center where students build the literacy skills and confidence to thrive. Our intentionally designed programs include a lower and middle school for grades 1–8 exclusively serving students with dyslexia and other language-based learning differences; a language-rich preschool for three- and four-year-olds; and a Learning Center offering instruction, resources, and support for learners, families, and educators.
I wish every school had a program for kids with dyslexia. Lots of people have dyslexia. It can be hard at the beginning, but I want people to know that it turns out okay. It’s not that students with dyslexia can’t read or have trouble seeing what’s on the page, they just learn in a different way. I wish that all teachers knew about Slingerland and dyslexia and how to help their students like HRS does.
HRS Student
I wish people would share more about dyslexia. A lot of my friends outside of HRS say they’re sorry about my dyslexia and don’t talk about it more than that. I wish everyone knew that a lot of important people have dyslexia, including scientists and athletes! Dyslexia isn’t bad, I actually think it’s pretty good and it’s more common than people know. Every [student at Hamlin Robinson School] has dyslexia, and they're good at all sorts of things.
HRS Student
I wish that more people knew that some days are harder than others when you have dyslexia. You can get a lot of work done one day and the next is just different. The teachers [at Hamlin Robinson School], they get that. They know how to teach students like me and it makes everything smoother.